now i am going to show you the pretty parts of Maldives. for the not so pretty parts, just imagine little india.
little india(s) surrounded by the vast indian ocean, voila, Maldives!
do you spot the reason why i am not splashing around in there?
Sunday, June 26, 2011
a warm welcome home
after spending most part of the past 2 weeks away on biz trips, i have come to appreciate truly the part of the touch down announcement where they say "...and to all Singaporeans and residents of Singapore, a warm welcome home"
now i am going to show you the pretty parts of Maldives. for the not so pretty parts, just imagine little india.
little india(s) surrounded by the vast indian ocean, voila, Maldives!
now i am going to show you the pretty parts of Maldives. for the not so pretty parts, just imagine little india.
little india(s) surrounded by the vast indian ocean, voila, Maldives!
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Friday, June 10, 2011
young once
it was always a hard decision to decide what to throw out when it comes to spring cleaning. diaries, notebooks, textbooks, notes, magazines. spent more time reading through them everytime and then decide that after all these were memories worth reminiscing over the next time i read them.
again, i chanced across the diary i kept when i was 14. that was quite a definitive year.
this time around, i figured there are the moments which i no longer need that diary to remember, and others which were better off not being re-visited.
this time around, i decided to stop hoarding.
again, i chanced across the diary i kept when i was 14. that was quite a definitive year.
this time around, i figured there are the moments which i no longer need that diary to remember, and others which were better off not being re-visited.
this time around, i decided to stop hoarding.
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Sunday, May 15, 2011
How to be alone by Tanya Davis
If you are at first lonely, be patient.
If you’ve not been alone much, or if when you were, you weren’t okay with it, then just wait.
You’ll find it’s fine to be alone once you’re embracing it.
We could start with the acceptable places, the bathroom, the coffee shop, the library.
Where you can stall and read the paper, where you can get your caffeine fix and sit and stay there.
Where you can browse the stacks and smell the books.
You’re not supposed to talk much anyway so it’s safe there.
There’s also the gym.
If you’re shy you could hang out with yourself in mirrors, you could put headphones in.
And there’s public transportation, because we all gotta go places.
And there’s prayer and meditation.
No one will think less if you’re hanging with your breath seeking peace and salvation.
Start simple. Things you may have previously based on your avoid being alone principals.
The lunch counter. Where you will be surrounded by chow-downers.
Employees who only have an hour and their spouses work across town
and so they — like you — will be alone.
Resist the urge to hang out with your cell phone.
When you are comfortable with eat lunch and run, take yourself out for dinner.
A restaurant with linen and silverware.
You’re no less intriguing a person when you’re eating solo dessert
to cleaning the whipped cream from the dish with your finger.
In fact some people at full tables will wish they were where you were.
Go to the movies. Where it is dark and soothing.
Alone in your seat amidst a fleeting community.
And then, take yourself out dancing to a club where no one knows you.
Stand on the outside of the floor till the lights convince you more and more and the music shows you. Dance like no one’s watching…because, they’re probably not.
And, if they are, assume it is with best of human intentions.
The way bodies move genuinely to beats is, after all, gorgeous and affecting.
Dance until you’re sweating, and beads of perspiration remind you of life’s best things,
down your back like a brook of blessings.
Go to the woods alone, and the trees and squirrels will watch for you.
Go to an unfamiliar city, roam the streets,
there are always statues to talk to and benches made for sitting
give strangers a shared existence if only for a minute and these moments can be so uplifting
and the conversations you get in by sitting alone on benches
might’ve never happened had you not been there by yourself.
Society is afraid of alonedom, like lonely hearts are wasting away in basements,
like people must have problems if, after a while, nobody is dating them.
But lonely is a freedom that breaths easy and weightless and lonely is healing if you make it.
You could stand, swathed by groups and mobs or hold hands with your partner,
look both further and farther for the endless quest for company.
But no one’s in your head and by the time you translate your thoughts,
some essence of them may be lost or perhaps it is just kept.
Perhaps in the interest of loving oneself,
Perhaps all those sappy slogans from preschool over to high school’s groaning
were tokens for holding the lonely at bay.
Cuz if you’re happy in your head than solitude is blessed and alone is okay.
It’s okay if no one believes like you.
All experience is unique, no one has the same synapses, can’t think like you,
for this be relieved, keeps things interesting life’s magic things in reach.
And it doesn’t mean you’re not connected, that communities not present,
just take the perspective you get from being one person in one head and feel the effects of it.
Take silence and respect it. if you have an art that needs a practice, stop neglecting it.
If your family doesn’t get you, or religious sect is not meant for you, don’t obsess about it.
You could be in an instant surrounded if you needed it
If your heart is bleeding make the best of it.
There is heat in freezing, be a testament.
If you’ve not been alone much, or if when you were, you weren’t okay with it, then just wait.
You’ll find it’s fine to be alone once you’re embracing it.
We could start with the acceptable places, the bathroom, the coffee shop, the library.
Where you can stall and read the paper, where you can get your caffeine fix and sit and stay there.
Where you can browse the stacks and smell the books.
You’re not supposed to talk much anyway so it’s safe there.
There’s also the gym.
If you’re shy you could hang out with yourself in mirrors, you could put headphones in.
And there’s public transportation, because we all gotta go places.
And there’s prayer and meditation.
No one will think less if you’re hanging with your breath seeking peace and salvation.
Start simple. Things you may have previously based on your avoid being alone principals.
The lunch counter. Where you will be surrounded by chow-downers.
Employees who only have an hour and their spouses work across town
and so they — like you — will be alone.
Resist the urge to hang out with your cell phone.
When you are comfortable with eat lunch and run, take yourself out for dinner.
A restaurant with linen and silverware.
You’re no less intriguing a person when you’re eating solo dessert
to cleaning the whipped cream from the dish with your finger.
In fact some people at full tables will wish they were where you were.
Go to the movies. Where it is dark and soothing.
Alone in your seat amidst a fleeting community.
And then, take yourself out dancing to a club where no one knows you.
Stand on the outside of the floor till the lights convince you more and more and the music shows you. Dance like no one’s watching…because, they’re probably not.
And, if they are, assume it is with best of human intentions.
The way bodies move genuinely to beats is, after all, gorgeous and affecting.
Dance until you’re sweating, and beads of perspiration remind you of life’s best things,
down your back like a brook of blessings.
Go to the woods alone, and the trees and squirrels will watch for you.
Go to an unfamiliar city, roam the streets,
there are always statues to talk to and benches made for sitting
give strangers a shared existence if only for a minute and these moments can be so uplifting
and the conversations you get in by sitting alone on benches
might’ve never happened had you not been there by yourself.
Society is afraid of alonedom, like lonely hearts are wasting away in basements,
like people must have problems if, after a while, nobody is dating them.
But lonely is a freedom that breaths easy and weightless and lonely is healing if you make it.
You could stand, swathed by groups and mobs or hold hands with your partner,
look both further and farther for the endless quest for company.
But no one’s in your head and by the time you translate your thoughts,
some essence of them may be lost or perhaps it is just kept.
Perhaps in the interest of loving oneself,
Perhaps all those sappy slogans from preschool over to high school’s groaning
were tokens for holding the lonely at bay.
Cuz if you’re happy in your head than solitude is blessed and alone is okay.
It’s okay if no one believes like you.
All experience is unique, no one has the same synapses, can’t think like you,
for this be relieved, keeps things interesting life’s magic things in reach.
And it doesn’t mean you’re not connected, that communities not present,
just take the perspective you get from being one person in one head and feel the effects of it.
Take silence and respect it. if you have an art that needs a practice, stop neglecting it.
If your family doesn’t get you, or religious sect is not meant for you, don’t obsess about it.
You could be in an instant surrounded if you needed it
If your heart is bleeding make the best of it.
There is heat in freezing, be a testament.
Saturday, May 14, 2011
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